In real life very little people have a little torelance to braggarts.(i really hate them)There is only so much narcissisitic noise we are readyto listen to people before we leave the wondering ''is it something that i said?"
But on the internet, mostly social networks bragging or cloaked boassting as i prefer calling common traits thats really a pin in my xxx. the very nature of a status update or a simple post is to talk about yourself, er,un,i mean, "share" with others what you are doing or thinking. if we dont like it, we can simply remove the annoying person(s) from our newsfeed and they will never know we are nolonger listening to their stupid chitchat and the bragging continues unchecked(at least i do that to 50% of my friends).intrestingly enough, most social networking braggarts dont even realise they are bragging.
The problematic question that often or not people dont realise is "Are we sharing too much?" or "How much is to the extent?"I have to admit more than once, i have questioned the seemingly perfect lives of my "friends" on facebook and twitter and some of the things they post is way not true or even close to it, they just post it to either show how perfect their lives are-which are not-or t attract the opposite sex which to me i find it lame."hahahaha AWSOME" thats how they name their picture albums.
Friday, 5 April 2013
Thursday, 6 September 2012
MENACE OF CAMPUS PROSTITUTION IN KENYA PART 2
From our last time saddening story we get the full report story.............
..................However,its intresting to agree with the two contending agreements,over the cause of such moral backwardness.Over the years Kenyan leaders have failed to come up with a passionate blue prints and religiously implementing such polcies for the development of this country.what we have had all this while is bands of pirates and vampires who have sucked the blood of their people to satisfy their insatiable greed and gluttonies.The failure of Kenyan leaders to develop the nation seriously lead to widening gap between the rich and the poor.This gap comes with it's own repercussions like drug trafficking and moral bankruptacy.
It's no longer news that the politicians,law makers,businessmen,major offcie holders are the main patronages of these students.A visit to female hostels at night,one will be amazed by the kind of flashing cars that come to pick these young undergraduates for one function or the other.This is rather pathetic for this nation and its people.The same set of misguided leaders that have thrown the parents of these students into greater poverty,thus,their inability to provide for their needs,are the same today destroying their womanhood;becaus they control the means of survival and social status.This is wickedness,ungodly,narcissim and betryal of all seasons.
Furthermore,because of the way these students were used and their connections in high places,they no longer respect their lecturers or constituted authorities and the young men who are in campus named ''suferers''.Academic indiscipline has cropped into the ivory towers ,which is precipitating serious crisis of academic excellence and quality of graduates that turn out every year.Also because of the huge monetary inducement in this illicit business,these corporate and campus prostitutes often parade themselves in a flash an sophisticated cars,jewelries and costumes to the chagrins and envy of their fellow students.
We are in deep trouble in this country if urgent attention is not taken to address this crisis.But the question is;Who provide the platforms of such reforms to take place?when it's the same politicians,political office holders,bureaucrats who are the major promoters of such illicit business in the first place.These are supposed to be the moral and spiritual builders of the society but are now the destroyers of such fabrics.
So its incumbent of us straight campus students to seriously try to stand tall and shun this Godforsaken behaviour that's not only a dissapointment to us but also a shame to the youth society.The religious leaders have a role in this gigantic crusades against societal ills that is already destroying the pillars that hold us together as campus students and the nation at large.And our sisters in campus must understand that prostitution business is never and will never be a trade to solve any problems.So,therefore,the spirits of hard work,dedication,moral uprightness and resting womanhood should be your watch words.
I pray to God Almighty to change the minds of these that are committing these heinous crimes against our mothers for their whimsical desires.And if they refuse to change their arctic of evil God destroy them for the over of all good of the society.Because no society ever progresses if those in the saddle of leadership are nothing but immoral and irresponsible set of class of mediocre,who have nothing to contribute than to destroy the fabrics of the society through the breakdown of the pillars that holds the society together.Untill then we hope and pray that these illicit business that is receiving dominance and attention in our campus will be uprooted ounce and for all and build a society where ethics,principles and morality will be the watch words of our leaders and the society in general.
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..................However,its intresting to agree with the two contending agreements,over the cause of such moral backwardness.Over the years Kenyan leaders have failed to come up with a passionate blue prints and religiously implementing such polcies for the development of this country.what we have had all this while is bands of pirates and vampires who have sucked the blood of their people to satisfy their insatiable greed and gluttonies.The failure of Kenyan leaders to develop the nation seriously lead to widening gap between the rich and the poor.This gap comes with it's own repercussions like drug trafficking and moral bankruptacy.
It's no longer news that the politicians,law makers,businessmen,major offcie holders are the main patronages of these students.A visit to female hostels at night,one will be amazed by the kind of flashing cars that come to pick these young undergraduates for one function or the other.This is rather pathetic for this nation and its people.The same set of misguided leaders that have thrown the parents of these students into greater poverty,thus,their inability to provide for their needs,are the same today destroying their womanhood;becaus they control the means of survival and social status.This is wickedness,ungodly,narcissim and betryal of all seasons.
Furthermore,because of the way these students were used and their connections in high places,they no longer respect their lecturers or constituted authorities and the young men who are in campus named ''suferers''.Academic indiscipline has cropped into the ivory towers ,which is precipitating serious crisis of academic excellence and quality of graduates that turn out every year.Also because of the huge monetary inducement in this illicit business,these corporate and campus prostitutes often parade themselves in a flash an sophisticated cars,jewelries and costumes to the chagrins and envy of their fellow students.
We are in deep trouble in this country if urgent attention is not taken to address this crisis.But the question is;Who provide the platforms of such reforms to take place?when it's the same politicians,political office holders,bureaucrats who are the major promoters of such illicit business in the first place.These are supposed to be the moral and spiritual builders of the society but are now the destroyers of such fabrics.
So its incumbent of us straight campus students to seriously try to stand tall and shun this Godforsaken behaviour that's not only a dissapointment to us but also a shame to the youth society.The religious leaders have a role in this gigantic crusades against societal ills that is already destroying the pillars that hold us together as campus students and the nation at large.And our sisters in campus must understand that prostitution business is never and will never be a trade to solve any problems.So,therefore,the spirits of hard work,dedication,moral uprightness and resting womanhood should be your watch words.
I pray to God Almighty to change the minds of these that are committing these heinous crimes against our mothers for their whimsical desires.And if they refuse to change their arctic of evil God destroy them for the over of all good of the society.Because no society ever progresses if those in the saddle of leadership are nothing but immoral and irresponsible set of class of mediocre,who have nothing to contribute than to destroy the fabrics of the society through the breakdown of the pillars that holds the society together.Untill then we hope and pray that these illicit business that is receiving dominance and attention in our campus will be uprooted ounce and for all and build a society where ethics,principles and morality will be the watch words of our leaders and the society in general.
www.strathmoreuniversity.com
Friday, 31 August 2012
THE MENACE OF CAMPUS PROSTITUTION IN KENYA PART 1
The growing rate of campus prostitution in Kenyan tertiary institutions today is raising a serious concern among Kenyans.It's often said that the ivory towers is the last stage in moulding the leaders of tomorrow,in preparatory for their engagement as leaders and policy makers of the future.So if such towers are now saturated with the menaces of prostitution and it's control syndicate,then the nation is in deep crisis.
Campus prostitution is now a common business in Kenyan tertiary institutions;with the culprits not hiding their trades,they have even gone to the extent of starting advertising agents in social networks like facebook likes of "Campus Divas For Rich Men"There is no tertiary institution that is immune for this crisis.This is a bad omen for motherhood and corrupting the social fabrics of a society which seriously cripple whatever developmental effort of the country;because societies that are not armed with sound morals are not,ruled by good leaders don't deserve life of existence.
Ironically,as the nation experience the growing rate of campus prostitution in her tertiary institution,so is the decaying structures of government.That means there is a direct relationship between moral uprightness of a society and the kind of leadership at the saddle of any society.
Over the years the business of campus prostitution,has has been a covert trade.This is due to the fact that,the value system of the Kenyan state and the moral consciousness of the ivory tower were on a high alert against all these menaces;that is destroying our society;thereby debasing motherhood today.
The rise of campus prostitution has just portrayed that the core values and moral system in Kenya is fast loosing it's relevance(if there is any left).Although it has been argued by some observers that,the rise in campus prostitution is a direct result of the growing rate of poverty and hopelessness in the country;occasioned by failure of leadership over the years.These general hopelessness and despairs is what is propelling these mothers of tomorrow to sell their honey well for a pattering sum of money to take care of themselves in school amidst parental neglects and inacations.While others are of the opinion that the rise in campus prostitution,is purely the product of new lifestyle ,ostentations and over materialization of these girls by the new crops of leaders in the country.
Wednesday, 8 August 2012
FATHER'S DAY-PRE,POST AND ALL TIME CELEBRATION.
www.bfound.co.kewww.bfound.co.kewww.contactme.comThis goes to all the good fathers out there.
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I would want to thank all the good fathers out there who have raised solid Kenyan's(good men and beautiful women)who love this this country and its exceptionalism and its blessing.
I very well know that some of you have lost their fathers and its time to remember them and fell the gratitude we have fore those whom they were and what they did for us.
I also can't forget those of you who ought to celebrate the day but just can't because at one time you let the devil take the better of your reasoning and hence the one you named "unwanted pregnancy"was taken care of in the devil's interest;but for what it's worth we still celebrate you and also pry for you-don't take it personal though-
I would also want to celebrate and always celebrate them on these day th two honorable sons of the land who died and were later laid to rest on the pre and on the day everyone in the world celebrated this year father's day(Hon George Saitoti and Hon Ojode)May God rest their souls in peace.
In conclusion I would want to share two comparing quotes from two great authors of all time-Proverbs 23:24-6 "My son,My daughtergive me your heart and let your eyes keep to my ways "Clarence Budingtom Kelland said "My father din't tell me how to live;he lived and let me watch do it!!"
Happy father's day always
Written By;
Abuthehater
www.abuthehater.blogspot.com
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Saturday, 16 June 2012
RAP IDEOLOGY PART 1
Rap is not all about rhyme and the expensive videos its more than that...Whats rap all about??
Rap started in the seventies,but it wasn't all that well known untill music videos started showing in M.T.V in 1984.Rap videos stood out as videos that were much different than rock and roll videos that actually received much air play at that time.Back then rap videos were simple,simple like the current kenyan music videos.Videos did not cost much to make.The rappers would be seen standing on the streets reciting their lyrics.A few videos featured the rappers driving one expensive cars,wearing a big gold chain,and expensive clothes and there might be one or two girls in the videos.Some rappers criticzed some policemen being racists,some talked about having a good time.The audience for rap was predominantly black .In the 80s people waren't making more money as they do now.In 1984 the income from the music was $22500.In 2002 the income doubled yo $42000.People by then did not have as much money so they did not spend much money.Now that they have more money to spend,people's lifestyles have become more expensive.More people are making more money.So people are spending more and buying expensive things.Nowadays rap videos feature cars that cost close half a million dollars,platinum and diamond jewelry being worn,very expensive clothes being worn and there atleast half a dozen girls per video.Statistics show that the audience of rap consist of mostly blacks listeners but whites make up a large portion of the listeners.Economics determines your morals.There is the idea that property determines wealth.Materialism and Capitalism are lifestyles and religion.People are trying to attain enlightenment.These music videos influence listeners very easily.Most go out and try to imitate these rappers but they have a smaller budget than the rappers do.These music videos reinforce the way of thinking that says"if my clothes are newer,if they cost more than yours ,or if i have more things than you have ,or if i have more girls than you do....then am beta than you"By flashing money in the videos ,they are just saying that they accept the ideology and don't want to change it.Apparently there are a handfull of socially consciousness rappers such as Mos Def,Common sense,Talib Qweli,Nas who rap about your dreams come true,not being caught up in your negative surrounding,realizing things for oneself,and changing the world.Nas's video"I know i can"features children clapping and singing chorus while he urges them to stay in school and not let negative people influence them.These "Consciousness Rappers" can and do influence social change,because they are free from ideology and the economy.An xtream opposition to socially Conscious songs and videos would be Jay Z's song "big pim pin" which is all about getting girls,money,cars,and mansions.The music video also reflect ,its visually filled with references.You can hardly listen to the words ,which aren't saying much anyway because you are busy looking at the excess in the video.This type of video and music reinforces and reflects ideology...........
Rap started in the seventies,but it wasn't all that well known untill music videos started showing in M.T.V in 1984.Rap videos stood out as videos that were much different than rock and roll videos that actually received much air play at that time.Back then rap videos were simple,simple like the current kenyan music videos.Videos did not cost much to make.The rappers would be seen standing on the streets reciting their lyrics.A few videos featured the rappers driving one expensive cars,wearing a big gold chain,and expensive clothes and there might be one or two girls in the videos.Some rappers criticzed some policemen being racists,some talked about having a good time.The audience for rap was predominantly black .In the 80s people waren't making more money as they do now.In 1984 the income from the music was $22500.In 2002 the income doubled yo $42000.People by then did not have as much money so they did not spend much money.Now that they have more money to spend,people's lifestyles have become more expensive.More people are making more money.So people are spending more and buying expensive things.Nowadays rap videos feature cars that cost close half a million dollars,platinum and diamond jewelry being worn,very expensive clothes being worn and there atleast half a dozen girls per video.Statistics show that the audience of rap consist of mostly blacks listeners but whites make up a large portion of the listeners.Economics determines your morals.There is the idea that property determines wealth.Materialism and Capitalism are lifestyles and religion.People are trying to attain enlightenment.These music videos influence listeners very easily.Most go out and try to imitate these rappers but they have a smaller budget than the rappers do.These music videos reinforce the way of thinking that says"if my clothes are newer,if they cost more than yours ,or if i have more things than you have ,or if i have more girls than you do....then am beta than you"By flashing money in the videos ,they are just saying that they accept the ideology and don't want to change it.Apparently there are a handfull of socially consciousness rappers such as Mos Def,Common sense,Talib Qweli,Nas who rap about your dreams come true,not being caught up in your negative surrounding,realizing things for oneself,and changing the world.Nas's video"I know i can"features children clapping and singing chorus while he urges them to stay in school and not let negative people influence them.These "Consciousness Rappers" can and do influence social change,because they are free from ideology and the economy.An xtream opposition to socially Conscious songs and videos would be Jay Z's song "big pim pin" which is all about getting girls,money,cars,and mansions.The music video also reflect ,its visually filled with references.You can hardly listen to the words ,which aren't saying much anyway because you are busy looking at the excess in the video.This type of video and music reinforces and reflects ideology...........
PROLEMS WITH SOAP OPERA GIRLS
In one of his lyrics,Ace Hood says that he love his chq because she watches no soap operas....that got me thinking....what's with soap opera chqs???...eva since i can remember i have not been into these types of chqs and that made me point out the reason as to why Abuthehater would never date a soap opera chq.
First thing,girls are too superficial they watch soap operas and watch movies,listen to love songs and they think they are going to find that in real life(girls are not in love,they are in lve with the "thought" of being in love then when something goes wrong,its the females who run.....
Second....Girls don't like games?NO! girls like games especially "the hard to get",which only scares off the good guys.Girls want honesty?NO!they want to be told what they want to hear;every time a guy is honest,girls label him a jerk.Girls don't like being controlled?NO!they love it(it shows he,s insecure and doesn't believe in 'trust')Thanks to girls;from start to finish,dating is nothing but a game(sad but true).It's all about telling"her"what she wants to hear,making "her"happy,doing things the same way they do it in the soaps and movies,and saying certain things at certain times only.Do guys lie,play games and act all great at first(then turn into jerks)?YES,and we guys hate it but there is no other way to get the girl;come on ladies,lay off the Romance movies and the Soap Operas.
in conclusion,wat kind of a guy do these kind of chqs want;A guy who looks like the Abercrombie model,has the attitude of a linebacker,the heart of a nice guy,who takes them out all the time(basically the soap opera guy).A'm afraid ladies,but there is no such a thing.Try taking advice from your grandparents who probably lasted before the invention of T.Vs instead of t.v shows,radio shows,movies and friends.And for the dudes you surely don't want to date a soap opera chq unless you want to be a soap opera chq....
First thing,girls are too superficial they watch soap operas and watch movies,listen to love songs and they think they are going to find that in real life(girls are not in love,they are in lve with the "thought" of being in love then when something goes wrong,its the females who run.....
Second....Girls don't like games?NO! girls like games especially "the hard to get",which only scares off the good guys.Girls want honesty?NO!they want to be told what they want to hear;every time a guy is honest,girls label him a jerk.Girls don't like being controlled?NO!they love it(it shows he,s insecure and doesn't believe in 'trust')Thanks to girls;from start to finish,dating is nothing but a game(sad but true).It's all about telling"her"what she wants to hear,making "her"happy,doing things the same way they do it in the soaps and movies,and saying certain things at certain times only.Do guys lie,play games and act all great at first(then turn into jerks)?YES,and we guys hate it but there is no other way to get the girl;come on ladies,lay off the Romance movies and the Soap Operas.
in conclusion,wat kind of a guy do these kind of chqs want;A guy who looks like the Abercrombie model,has the attitude of a linebacker,the heart of a nice guy,who takes them out all the time(basically the soap opera guy).A'm afraid ladies,but there is no such a thing.Try taking advice from your grandparents who probably lasted before the invention of T.Vs instead of t.v shows,radio shows,movies and friends.And for the dudes you surely don't want to date a soap opera chq unless you want to be a soap opera chq....
Thursday, 14 June 2012
As we grow up,we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down probably will.You'll have your hert broken and you'll break oters' hearts.You'll fight with your best friend or mybe even fall in love with them,and you'll cry because time is flying by.So take too many pictures,laugh too much,forgive freely,and love like you've never been hurt.Life COMES WIYH NO GUARANTEES,NO TIME OUTS,NO SECOND CHANCES,you just have to live life to the fullest,tell someone how much they mesn to you and tell someone off,speak out our mind,dance in the pouring rain,hold someones hand,comfort a friend,fall asleep watching the sun come up,stsy up late,be aflirt,and smile untill you face hurts.Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all,live in the moment because every second you spend andry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.So if "Life's a Bitch"how good are you with your bitch??
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